Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Week 142

Nov 16-22

I'm going to call this post: "Do what you want!" Because life is too short not to.

I think the biggest event of this week would be the phone call from Palmetto Richland Hospital offering me my dream job. :) PEDIATRIC EMERGENCY DEPARTMENT here I come! I am so excited because I feel like a certain chain of events has led me to where I am now in my career.

It is so funny because all through college I insisted that I wanted to work in pediatrics. My teachers told me I needed to try out a few different areas to really see what I would like. I still insisted I wanted to work with kids.

My first job as a nurse tech (kind of like a nurse assistant) was on a pediatrics floor at a small hospital in Georgia. I can still remember when I first stepped on that unit and saw the bright colors, toy room, stickers, cribs instead of big beds. The whole thing was catered to kids. I was in heaven. I just knew this was where I belonged. As a student working on the floor I learned as much as I could from those nurses. I asked questions and paid attention to every thing they did.


I don't know why, but for some reason nursing students are always told that you can't get your first job in places like pediatrics, emergency department, etc. "You have to work on a general medical/surgical floor first to get your skills down." That was all I ever heard. I think they just tell you that because no one wants to work there and they are always short staffed on those units. I remember thinking "forget that...I'm working pediatrics." That is what I did.

In my area there was one small community hospital down the street, one hospital 30 miles north in Brunswick (where I was a nurse tech), and a bunch of hospitals 30 miles south in downtown Jacksonville. I'm sure a normal person out of college would apply for as many jobs as they could and hope to get anything. I remember looking at all the jobs and thinking, "I don't like any of those." Then I saw a job for a nurse at Wolfson Children's Hospital. It wasn't even a job for a "new grad." I think they were asking for at least 1 year of experience. I applied anyway.


I got called in for an interview and I remember not even being that nervous when I walked in. I had convinced myself that this was my job and this is where I was supposed to be. I walked out of the interview with the job and to this day (so far) it was the best job I ever had. I learned so much from my preceptor Catie. She was amazing. I looked up to her so much and she taught me everything I needed to know. She was super smart. I remember she had just taken her test to be a Board Certified Pediatric Nurse and I was determined to do the same thing as soon as I could (you have to have at least 2 years experience and a bunch of other qualifications before you can take the test).


After one year of working at an amazing place, we had to move (thanks Navy). I was still determined to stay in pediatrics. It is a difficult field to get into because once people land the positions, they tend to stay there forever. The closest children's hospital was over an hour and a half away so that was out. I had three smaller hospitals near my house to choose from. There wasn't even a job in pediatrics listed anywhere, but I didn't see any other jobs I liked so I called the director of pediatrics and asked her if she would look over my resume and call me if something became available. She asked me to come down right away and interview and I had a job once again on the spot. When I had been a nurse for about a year and a half I started studying for my board certification. It's a pretty big deal and only one other nurse on the whole pediatrics unit had the title.


I was a little intimidated because I was the youngest nurse with the least experience on the pediatric unit. I studied for 6 months straight and then scheduled my test. When I found out that I had passed I was so excited!!! At this point I had worked on the pediatric unit at the small hospital for a year and business was slowly waning. We didn't really get a whole lot of kids and it was getting boring for me. This was when I decided to transfer to the Emergency Department. At least they get kids who come in there. It was definitely scary going from my safe world of pediatrics to full blown Emergency Department with EVERYTHING coming in. I learned so many new skills from the nurses there. I felt so lucky to be given the chance to work in the E.D. without experience.


When we first decided to move back home to Columbia I started stalking the jobs listed at the children's hospital. I REALLY wanted to work in the Pediatric Emergency Department. To this day, I have never seen a position listed for that job. When I was ready to apply for a new job after Abel had gotten a little older, I applied for a position in the regular adult E.D. thinking that it was at least one step closer and eventually I could transfer to where I wanted. When I was called to interview for the adult E.D. job I was told there weren't any positions available for the pediatric E.D. but my resume would be provided to the nurse manager.


A couple of days later the nurse manager called me and asked if I could come in for an interview. Of course I could!! I wasn't even sure if this was for a "real" job or just to keep me in mind in case something ever did come open. I had a total of three interviews for the job and after the last one (a peer interview with the night shift nurses) I received a call from the nurse recruiter offering me a full time night shift position in the pediatric E.D. Wahooo!!! It's like it was meant to be.








Don't ever let others convince you that you can't do what you want to do. If you are meant to do something, somehow it will happen. I am so excited to start my new job. Orientation is on December 19th.
In the meantime I am going to enjoy my last few weeks as a full time "stay-at-home" mom. We have had a lot of fun lately with our play group The Busy Bees. I have met tons of cool moms my age to hang out with (while Jack has had a blast playing with tons of other kids). This week we went to the fire station. It was cute. The firemen did a whole presentation for the kids with music and a puppet show. They also let the kids tour the station and climb all over the trucks. Each kid got a goodie bag and a hat. Jack kept asking where Uncle Will was. He didn't quite understand that this was a different fire station. He still loved it.



Next week is Thanksgiving and that means the end to our "fall/harvest" decorations. Christmas is coming!!! Almost time for the tree and all of the Christmas decorations. Have a great week!


Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Week 141



Nov 9-15

Fall is officially here! The leaves are changing, the air is crisp and cool, and we are loving every minute of it! We decorated our house a couple of weeks ago and I never got a chance to take a picture. Jack's new art projects are also adorning my kitchen. More to come on that...

Creative handprint turkeys. :)

Awhile back, Ed and I decided that Abel's Baptism weekend would be our last weekend of "fun" eating...and then it would be time to buckle down and get serious. I am the worst pregnant person. I hate getting big and uncomfortable. I hate not having my body to myself. I HATE not being able to workout. I was cleared by my doctor and started the Asylum workout. As most of you know I completed the Insanity workout last year (here is my video transformation) with pretty good results. Asylum is from the same company and is even the same instructor in the video series...but a little bit different. This program is a bit more intense and only 30 days instead of 60 days.
Jack's fingerprint turkey.

Jack's handprint turkey.

I figured what better way to jolt myself back into some kind of shape? So now I have officially completed the first week of Asylum and I feel great. I can already tell the difference in the way my clothes fit. I have lost 4 lbs so far. Yay! I really need to lose about 40 lbs so I figure after Asylum I will keep it going with either Insanity again or maybe P90X. I will keep you posted. One thing at a time. Asylum is plenty enough on my plate right now.

As you all know Ed and I are both currently unemployed. He stopped getting paid from the Navy in the middle of October so we are living off of our savings and hoping to get hired soon. It is not ideal, but we fully predicted how we would work this all out a long time ago and saved up. Things are looking up though, and we both just might end up landing our dream jobs. I guess the only thing left is our dream house. Haha...one day.

He is working hard to join the City of Columbia Fire Department. As you read in my last post he completed the first portion of the hiring process and this week he received a phone call...and he has an interview on Tuesday!!! :) Wahoo! I know he will do great!

This is how he showed me his turkey for the camera.

I just think he is so cute.

So proud of his 'hand' turkey creation!

I have also been applying for nursing jobs. I applied for two jobs and got two interviews last week. Both interviews went very well and I have follow up interviews tomorrow. It is looking like I might have to choose between two jobs. Not a bad place to be in. It is so hard right now because I really prefer day shift (or at least 11a-11p like I had before) since I am still breastfeeding Abel and it will be super hard to work all night and be normal during the day to watch two little kids. It is hard enough already. Don't get me wrong, we have tons of fun and I love my boys but by the end of the day your patience and energy has been exhausted. Stay tuned for the outcome of all the interviews and the final decision.
I love these things!

Our 'Harvest' mantle

Because we are both not working we are definitely taking advantage of both being home. It makes it super easy to work out. Generally Ed works out first thing and as soon as he has finished and I have fed Abel, I will walk upstairs to do my workout. He will already have the DVD queued up on the TV and I am ready to go. I don't know how I will work out when we are both working. At first we thought we could just get up super early and get our workout in before the boys wake up. Well, Jack has started waking up at 5:00 am these days and so it is pretty difficult. I don't know what to do about him getting up so early. He has also dropped his nap completely. I really need to consult my sleep book, but who has time for that?

Jack's pilgrim hat.

This is what they do when I workout.

First time with finger paint.

Since Jack is too young for school and we aren't really in the position to pay for some kind of preschool thing at this time, we figured we should continue to stimulate his mind and teach him a few things at home. He is pretty smart for his age and it's not difficult for him to grasp new things. He knows all of his letters, colors, most shapes, he can count to 12. His speech is impeccable and his vocabulary grows on a daily basis. He has started having appropriate conversations instead of just mimicking things. The other night I asked if he liked his dinner and he replied, "yeah, it's really good!" He cracks me up.

Making turkey pictures!

Jack in the bath playing with his ABC's

Abel and I at the park. Please excuse the no makeup look.

We don't do anything grueling and drill him all the time. I try to be sneaky and interject teaching points within fun activities and games. When we play with Play-Doh and I will ask him what each color is as we are playing. Sometimes when we "play chalk" outside I will draw shapes and letters. I just kind of haphazardly ask him questions and that is how he is learning all of these things. He amazes me. We started doing arts and crafts in the mornings. He was really into Halloween themed activities so I figured I would continue his interest into the Thanksgiving themes. This week we made all kinds of turkeys with our hands including finger paints and construction paper cutouts.

He had a blast playing!

Rosy cheeks.

So cute!

He is also very sweet to his baby brother. The other day I watched him while I was washing dishes and Abel's blanket had fallen to the floor while he was in his swing. Jack was going toward him and at first I was prepared to tell him, "don't touch the baby!" thinking he might do something to him. Instead, I waited to see what he was going to do. He carefully stopped the swing long enough for him to replace the blanket on Abel's lap, and then he gave him a gentle push to get him going again. It was soooo sweet! It completely melted my heart. I am so proud of him sometimes!!!!
Aren't these leaves so pretty!?

My little model.

Today we decided to go downtown to Finlay park. Last time we went I was severely pregnant with Abel. This time was much more enjoyable for me. I had Abel tied up in the Moby wrap, but at least I could run around and play with Jack. I am so grateful that Abel his finally here and I don't have to be preggos anymore! Here are some pictures at the park. The leaves were falling, creating a gorgeous scene!!!

These two...crack me up!

Up in a tree!

Did not want to leave the park. He was pretty upset.

Yesterday Baby Abel turned 2 months old! Time seriously flies by with two kids. Here is a cute picture of him that I took in the backyard!
Abel William 2 months old!

Friday, November 11, 2011

Week 140

Nov 2-8

November 3, 2011 = Happy 5 Year Wedding Anniversary to my wonderful Husband!!! Where has the time gone? It feels like our wedding was just yesterday and now we have two kids! I am so lucky to have you as my husband and also as the father to my children. You are the best!!!
November 3, 2006

Unfortunately, this year we did not get a chance to celebrate our anniversary because we were getting ready for Abel's big weekend. We had a lot of family coming in from out of town for the Baptism so we figured Saturday we should entertain and feed them. :)

We spent the days before the weekend preparing our menu, going grocery shopping, and doing any kind of prep work we could in order to make everything as easy as possible. It was really fun to organize our first "party" at our new house. We were so excited to have everyone over, we don't get much activity around here.

Hanging out in the kitchen.

Ed and Chuck!

Brothers!

Sisters!

We made tons of food, had plenty of beer, and I think everyone had a nice time. We celebrated Ed's graduation from college since we never really got to celebrate with family. Ed had no idea and it was fun to have a little surprise worked in. He definitely earned it. I am so proud of him for getting his bachelors degree.

Siblings taking a shot (I didn't participate b/c I don't think Abel would like liquored up milk!)

Ed's Surprise College Graduation Cake!

The next day was Sunday, the day of the Baptism. We are so blessed that all of our family came to church to witness Abel's first Sacrament of Initiation into the Catholic Church. Abel is lucky to be so new in this world and already have this many people who love him. Thank you to everyone who came. We appreciate each and every one of you. Here are some pictures from Abel's most important day.

Abel William Baptized November 2011

Jack Edward Baptized May 2009

These first two pictures are special because we took them in the same spot of each baby wearing the blessed gown that has been passed down to so many people in the family for over 80 years!!!

Abel's wonderful Godmother getting him dressed in the gown.

"Hmm...I've never worn shoes before."

He looks like a little baby cherub in this one.

Awww!

Precious little hat...courtesy of Ashleigh.

Aunt Caroline, Uncle Will, and Uncle Andy!

So happy with his Godparents!!!

Such a good baby, didn't even cry.

Yay!

Pap and May-May

Such a sweet little baby.

Our favorite cake...same cake we had at our wedding!

The beautiful cookies made by myself and Aunt Caroline!

The Godmother got him a second outfit. He looks so handsome!!!